Where in the world did this decision come from?
Well, I told you next time I would explain how we came to our decision. I suppose now would be that time. Honestly, for me, it started as a joke. It's been probably about five years since it first came up; Tom and I were kidding around about what we were going to do when he retired after 25 years, and he jokingly said something similar to "Move to South America somewhere where I won't have to work and start a church". We laughed it off and never thought about it again, or at least I did. Sometime later he brought it up again, and I laughed again...and after a few instances of this I panicked when I realized he was seriously wanting me to consider this. I refused for quite a while. Let's be honest: I'm an anxiety riddled introvert who is most comfortable in my home, in the town where i grew up, 10 minutes from my folks. My only experiences living away from home include 4 years of college in North Carolina and 3 years of graduate school in Indiana (and that w...